Bells, Bows, Gifts, Trees

No childhood memories about this one as Todrick just dropped it yesterday. However the little boy inside me wished for this way back when and Santa just answered!

I don’t dance, I prance…

Full screen and turned up to eleven!

Todrick Hall – Bells, Bows, Gifts, Trees – 12/2020

Holiday Fabulousness!

🎼 Just say to me what you want from me 🎶

Often the illusion is that the easier path for dealing with problems is to run away from them, avoid them or ignore them.

In my experience avoidance is my default. I have found that I must remind myself daily that the true easier path is to acknowledge my problem, feel that emotions surrounding my problem and then to face the problem and walk through it. Not all problems are easily resolved. However I’ve found that the only way they are ever resolved is to deal with them head on. No matter how hard issues appear, resolution is always easier and better than running away.

Lil Nas X , Fearsome’s favorite out and proud rapper, dropped this new tune this morning. I found it’s message helpful in many ways.

Lil Nas X – Panini – Official Video – 2019

Visualize what you want. Say what you want. Move toward what you want.

Beard of the day


David Letterman & Jonathan Van Ness talk Beard Care, Self Care plus Gender and LGBTQ rights.

It’s our first ever Beard of the day via video but after watching this they both deserve a Beard of the day honor and right from this video. Go ahead hit play!


It has now been just over 50 years since the raid of The Stonewall Inn.

We’ve come a long way.

Now isn’t the time to turn back.

Live, love, hope and vote like your life depends on it. Because? Because your life and freedoms actually do depend on your participation, on your vote.

Happy San Diego Pride Y’all!

One by One

We change hearts and minds One by One.

Let’s kick off San Diego Pride 2019 by sharing love, joy, peace and respect with all of those around us.

Cher – One by One – 1996

Happy San Diego Pride Y’all!