My favorite Comic Con moment, It Rhymes With Takei

Back in 2018 the highlight of my SDCC Comic Con was meeting Nichelle Nichols, aka Star Trek’s Uhura when stumbling upon her while navigating the maze that is the convention floor.

Nichelle Nichols and Fearsome 2018

She adored Fearsome and grabbed onto him with the biggest smile. I bought her autographed Uhura Pop which you can see in my hand.

This year, some 7 years later, I accidentally stumbled upon and had the honor of meeting George Takei , aka Star Trek’s Sulu, who played along side Nichelle on the famous bridge of the Starship Enterprise. It was truly a groundbreaking series not only placing a woman of color front and center but an Asian man as well. For the 1960s television this type of integration was unheard of before Star Trek.

George, who was once in a Japanese interment camp as a child during World War 2, didn’t stop his groundbreaking after the tv series was over. As a gay man he has led the way for many others in the entertainment industry to come out and stand up for gay rights. He is truly an inspiration leading the way with his husband Brad by his side. I bought his latest book, It Rhymes With Takei, and stood in line to meet him and have it autographed.

George Takei and Fearsome 2025

While conversing at the counter he mentioned my beard, I then told him the story of meeting Nichelle and how taken she was with Fearsome. He asked if I had a photo and I showed the one above to him. He suggested that he grab Fearsome himself for another photo. Fearsome and I are forever grateful as our two favorite characters from the bridge of the Starship Enterprise have held Fearsome Himself in their hands!

Nichell’s Pop and George’s book, both autographed, will remain together here in my home as their two characters remain together in my memory …as well as both of their beautiful smiles.

It Rhymes With Takei & Uhura Pop, two of my most valued treasures.

Thank you Nichelle for looking down on me from wherever you are and blessing me with meeting George. I adore you both. 🖖

A little trick of mine

I often have to remind myself that to have a positive outlook is that I must remember to work for it. By work I mean I need to seek things that make me feel good, look for the good in the world, appreciate beauty around me wherever I am and to give kindness as much as I can to others, even to strangers. A positive outlook helps me to focus on what I want instead of focusing on what I don’t want.

When I focus on what I want I find more of it around me. With more of it around me I feel better and I’m able to see more.

In today’s world it’s easy for me to get overcome with things that bother me and to in turn see more negative things and thus I end up defeated and depressed. Defeatism does not serve me, it only makes me feel bad and in turn I pass that energy to everthing and everyone around me. Becoming Debbie Downer is not who I want to become.

Therefore, for me, I must work at finding the good. It doesn’t mean I’m not aware of the bad, nor does it mean I approve of it. However the only way I can win and overcome negative things is by being well myself, and feeling good helps me to be well.

Today I’ll start my week off with a tune from my childhood that just makes me feel good. May it help one of you reading this as well.

Simon & Garfunkel – The 59th Street Bridge Song (Feelin’ Groovy) – 1966

May peace, love, joy and understanding prevail on earth.

Milk’s Legacy

“We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness.” The phrase is attributed to Thomas Jefferson, the primary author of the Declaration of Independence.

Harvey Milk will never be erased as long as I’m able to speak.

 

Happy New Year!

I want to pause and wish everyone here a Happy New Year!

The year ahead will definitely bring a challenge or three, or even more. I pause to remind myself that no matter how challenged I may become in a situation, there is always something I can do. What can I do? I can choose how I react, how I perceive, how I move forward, how may overcome, how I can grow and what I can learn.

I can also choose to look for beauty in my surroundings and beauty in the people I interact with. I can choose to share good, to focus on positive and to not dwell on things that do not help me nor those around me. I can let fear pass though me, feel it then recognize it for what it is and let go of it. I can do my best to understand, to love, to share and to give.

These are the things I wish to strive for in my New year.

Oh and to dance, I wish to dance. Will you join me?

Scissor Sisters – Let’s Have A Kiki – Custom Videodrome Discothéque Video Edit 2012

The Sistah Shop

Someone who gives to her community by creating space and opportunity for others is given a boost by her community. Humanity at its best. People helping people.

Truly  heartwarming, I needed this today.
Visit the Sistah Shop online –    HERE     – A shop where over 100 Black Women entrepreneurs can market their products giving them a hand up towards success.

This holiday season I’m going to remember to visit the small businesses in my community and give them my support. Together we can make our communities and the world a better place.

Heroes

I believe it’s important to surround myself with good, inspiration and hope. Therefore I must focus on finding good stories, positive messages and inspiring people.
Today I found this heartwarming video. May it warm your heart as it did mine.

Thank you Emmy Lou. You give me hope in humanity.

While we have Emmy Lou Harris here on the blog, I’ll add one of my favorite tunes she has released…

Emmy Lou Harris, Linda Ronstadt & Dolly Parton – My Dear Companion – 2007 re-master

My meditation for today

Today I will be grateful for just being me. I choose to find good, find beauty in what is around me and for what I have.
From my gratitude, I will see and attract more I can be grateful for.

No matter the circumstance, there is always something I can be grateful for or something I can appreciate in some way. I’ll start with one thing and from that one thing, I will find more. I just have to be open and be willing.

Life is good, the story

This past summer I had the fortunate opportunity to hear Bert Jacobs, co-founder of Life is Good, speak at a seminar I attended. He filled the room with light and joy as he shared a longer version of the story in this short clip below.

The message I took away is that good things start within each of us. We just have to remain open and to start from a place of love. It reminded me of a book I read once when seeing a career counselor titled Do What You Love, The Money Will Follow.
The Jacobs brothers’ story embodies this perspective. The real key to their ultimate success is that they walk the walk and give back to those who need it most. They share their success to the betterment of others.

So I ask myself: What can I do today to positively impact at least one person or place I encounter today? For a better tomorrow starts with just one good act today.

May peace, love and light be yours today, and tomorrow.

I needed this reminder

Once again I’m going to post a video that I posted in my past blogging. However restarting my path to a more positive life in the face of what I fear may become adverse to me, I’m going back to some roots of my past that kept me out of darkness and in light.
Since I have trudged out of darkness before, it is vital that I stay in the light and not allow myself to even entertain darkness. I know me and I can easily slip into darkness and end up wallowing in it.
So to keep me on a better path I’m reaching into my tool bag and picking up tools that helped me before. This particular video was one of them. It reminds me to be me, to show my flaws and realize that they are an asset. My strength comes from challenges I’ve previously overcome. By being vulnerable and showing my true self, I can grow stronger and hopefully I can also help others that may have similar experiences to overcome.
I am currently reliving a frightening memory in my mind and may share about it soon. It’s not an easy story to share nor a comfortable one for others to learn about. However it is a story that shaped me and shows up in how I react to instability in my life. So stay tuned as it may come out of me in the future. I do not know when or even if it will, but I’m going to write about it in private first and then just take it from there.

Anyhoo, today I post this video as it was good for me to watch it again. Maybe it will help one of you on your journey as well.

May peace prevail on earth as well as in your life.

 

With clouds come rainbows

I have clouds in my world today. It’s kind of dark.
I am going to find someone, somewhere to whom I can be kind today.
If my world is dark, I can brighten it by brightening someone else’s world.
I’ll be a rainbow in someone’s clouds today.
In turn maybe a rainbow will appear in my clouds in a few days.

Why we must continue to march…

We must continue to march, speak out and be visible so that we and those coming behind us can experience the simple beauty of love, marriage and family that Alastair and Zach share with us in their beautiful wedding video below.

Thank you Zach and Alastair for sharing your lives and love with us through YouTube. The many who marched before me, then me and then you two have made our world a better place for all. May we continue our journey as it isn’t over. Justice and equality take work to build and to maintain. It’s good work.

Happy Pride Y’all   …let’s keep marching.